Resolutions 2009

Granted, I’m a little late in publishing this post.  And–as you’ll see– some of the resolutions have already been broken.  I made a similar list last year but never posted it.  And now I can’t find the scrap of paper my 2008 resolutions were written on… so much for getting organized, I guess. 

Plus,  since I’m 12 days late in posting this, I can give you a quick update on how well I’m progressing (or not) on my goals. Without further adieu, here are my resolutions for 2009:

Be 100% smoke free– I haven’t really been a “smoker” for years and years but I like to smoke occasionally when I’m out.  I’m going to try to make 2009 100% smoke free. I don’t need it and I feel horrible afterwards, so what’s the point?

update: this resolution was broken on January 6.  Anxiety got the best of me.

Avoid fast food–  Another “let’s see how long I can go” resolution.  I honestly don’t even like fast food.  But it’s convenient.  Let’s see how long I can go w/o eating it

update:  this resolution was broken on January 10.  Early morning McDonald’s run before heading on snowboarding trip.

Finish more books–  I love to read but I haven’t been reading enough lately.  I’m currently trying to read about 4 books.  My problem is a *severe* lack of attention span.  If I’m bored with something, I stop.  So, this year I resolve to finish every book I start.

update:  so far, so good.  To be fair, though, the only books I’ve tried to read in 2009 were the Twilight  books, so that doesn’t exactly count.

Learn to write fiction–  I love writing– writing for this blog, writing for work, writing emails to friends, etc.  But all my writing tends to be informational or personal.  I’d like to take a stab at writing fiction, stories,  to see if I can write about anything other than my latest alcohol-fueled trip or stupid observations about TV

update: I’m taking a creative writing class at Parkland this semester… we’ll see how that goes.

Watch more movies–  If I could find the resolution list from last year, I guarantee  this would be on there.   I love movies, but I don’t have the attention span to sit and watch one for 2 hours straight.  I still have 4 Netflix movies on top of my DVD player waiting to be watched.  I think they’ve been there since November.  Goal: to watch one NEW (or at least new to me) movie a month.   That’s doable, right?

update:  I haven’t seen a new movie yet this year.  Maybe I’ll watch one of my Netflix tonight.  Maybe.

Be more honest–  I realize that this resolution makes me sound like a big ole liar.  That’s not really it.   I’m just not always completely honest when it comes to interpersonal stuff. I’m usually afraid of coming off the wrong way or somehow insulting someone so I sometimes tell people what they want to hear rather than what I really want to say. I also tend to avoid conflict and shy away when people say mean/hurtful/inappropriate things, so I’m going to make a conscious effort to try to call people out on stuff when necessary.

update:  working on it.  sorta.

Learn to appreciate poetry–  I’ll admit it.  I hate poetry.  I even wrote about it once.   But I feel like I’m not giving it a good enough shot.  Surely thousands of poetry lovers can’t be wrong…  So, I’m going to try to pick up some poetry and see if I can get into it.  

update:  I honestly haven’t even started thinking about how to approach this one.  Suggestions?  Anyone… anyone?

Get back to a fighting weight–  My resolution list would be incomplete without the requisite “lose weight” goal.   A couple years ago, I lost 40-45 lbs and I’ve since gained some back, so I’d like to get back to my “fighting weight.”  I think that’s about 15 lbs or so.  20 would be better.  I’d also like to actually RUN a 5K this year… and maybe even more.  

update:  uh… did you see the note earlier about the McDonald’s?  Not really going anywhere with this one quite yet.

Get control of debt– Again, another cliche resolution, but it’s one I need to work on.  I was 100% free of credit card debt when I moved into my house two years ago.  Since then, I’ve put a little more on my cards than I’m comfortable with, so I’d like to at least pay them down, if not eliminate the debt completely

update:  I haven’t even paid bills this month, so I’m no closer to this goal than I was on Jan. 1.  

There you have it, my list of resolutions for 2009.  Hopefully I’ll be able to report success on at least some of these by the time 2010 rolls around.  Oh, and I’m starting back up on the no fast food/no smoking thing even though I already fell off the wagon on those.

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Oh, crap… I forgot one:

Be more responsible–  It’s true. I’m not nearly as responsible as I make myself out to be sometimes.  I forget to do things… I put off things I don’t want to do until they “automagically” disappear…  I fail to turn things in on time.   It’s probably more procrastination than irresponsibility, but I’m almost 30 damn it.   I should try to be a little bit more grown-up, dontcha think?

update:  well… I forgot to include this in the original post if that’s any indication of my progress!

 

5 responses to “Resolutions 2009

  1. If you want to get your toes wet with poetry, you could start with Shel Silverstein :)

  2. You go Cari. . . I have every confidence you can succeed. So you’ve had a rough start on some fronts. . . at least you’re being honest with yourself and have goals!

    I love poetry of all kinds. Always have. . . it started in grade school literature class in reading compilations of many famous poets. I looked at some books on Amazon. . . eh, they have some that I love. . . but are missing many of my favs from my favorite authors. If I ever find the perfect book, I’ll send it to you!

    Oh, and yes. . . I did start with Shel Silverstein and Jack Prelutsky. :)

  3. i tried to like poetry too. i took a course in college and still hated it. the worst one was when we had to write one. i think i got a pity c from my teacher.
    good luck! i hope you learn to appreciate it more than i do.

  4. Thanks, everyone.

    I read plenty of Shel Silverstein as a kid, so I’m looking for something a little more adult, but still accessible/readable/interesting.

  5. Pingback: Resolutions 2009: How’d I do? « Carich Blogs

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